I asked ChatGBT this question and this is the result with my two pennith added in:-
People choose different colours for their weddings for various reasons, influenced by personal preferences, cultural traditions, symbolism and trends.
I'm on round 2 and it's funny that although I didn't realise it initially I choose the same colour both times - pink. Not sure why so as I reflect on some of the common reasons I wonder what influenced me???
Cultural Significance - Different cultures associate specific colours with weddings or marriage. For example, red is a traditional colour in many Asian cultures, symbolising happiness and prosperity while white is commonly associated with purity and new beginnings in Western cultures.
The thought had never crossed my mind that my dress would be anything other than white or ivory. When it came to colours I was only thinking of bridesmaids and décor so I guess for me the western culture was automatic - a decision that I didn't realise was a decision.
Symbolism - Colours carry meanings and emotions. For instance, blue can symbolise trust and loyalty, green represents natures and growth, and purple is often associated with royalty and luxury. Couples may choose colours that symbolise qualities they value in their relationship.
Seasonal Themes - The time of year can influence colour choices. For example, pastels are popular in spring, bright colours in summer, warm tones like burgundy and gold in autumn and cool shades like silver and blue in winter.
Now I can see for sure how people can be influenced here and I harp on about how I love the Autumn when the landscape changes to a sea of reds, oranges and yellows. And that Winter Wonderland feel with blues and mint blended with a warm glow of added candles.
But alas for me the time of year didn't sway me. Not for my wedding(s) anyway. On other occasions? - Maybe.
Trends and Fashion - Some couples are inspired by current trends in wedding fashion and design, which can change from year to year. They might choose colours that are popular or fashionable at the time of their wedding.
This definitely played a part second time round for me and I think in this world of social media it's hard for it not to. I expect it's had a part to play in all wedding planning these days. Whether this is a good or bad thing the jury's still out on - it can play havoc with your budget!
Co-ordination with Bridesmaids and Decor - Couples often consider how their chosen colours will look in photos, how they will co-ordinate with bridesmaids' dresses, and how they will fit with the overall decor and theme of the wedding.
Again in this digital age photos play a major part - like they do in many aspects of our lives these days and in my opinion way too much. It certainly didn't play a part for me when choosing colours and not sure it would be for most. For me I decided on the colour first and then set about choosing the bridesmaids' dresses and decorations.
Venue and Setting - The wedding locations and décor can also influence colour choices. A beach wedding might inspire oceanic colours like turquoise and coral, while a formal ballroom might lend itself to more classic or elegant colours like black, gold and deep red.
The one is a bit of a mixed bag for me. You would need to like the venue as it is to choose it in the first place - you're not gonna go for somewhere that that stripey wallpaper at the end of the day. I can relate to being influenced by the type of venue, like a barn or manor house, although I think this relates more to styling rather than colour. In my experience most venues now opt for neutral decor for the sole purpose of it looking good with any colour you choose. At the end of the day they want their venue to look fab in those photos too!
Family Traditions - Sometimes family traditions or expectations play a role in colour selection. This could involve incorporating specific colours that have been used in family weddings for generations.
I love the idea of this and wish that I had a colour or an item that was be passed down from generations gone by - I bet you lovely people have some nostalgic, funny and crazy wedding hand me downs. Please share!
Representation our Their Journey - Some couples choose colours that represent significant moments in their relationship such as the colours of a place where they met or a significant event they shared.
Hmmm not sure on this one, what say you? Perhaps if I bend it and feel it then I might be able to come up with a colour. This is really stretching the imagination and think I'd need a brainstorming session to open one's mind.
I did however include some significance in that our favours were Eifel Tower keyrings tied to a box of fondant fancies - wedding proposal connection. He's such a romantic!
9. Astrological or Spiritual Beliefs - Some people choose colours based on astrological or spiritual beliefs, thinking that certain colours bring luck, happiness or harmony to their marriage.
Although this did not play a part for me, I know several people that would do this such is the strength and depth in their belief. For me it would only be a consideration for a themed party where I can imagine fancy dress costumes and decorations being very creative..... Hmm what celebration have I got coming up?
10. Personal Taste - Couples often choose colours that reflect their personalities or that they simply like. This might be favourite colours, or shades that they find beautiful or that hold personal significance.
I've left this til last as I think it's probably the one that relates to most. I'm not a bold, loud or outrageous person so bright colours were not for me. Funny really when you think Autumn if my favourite season for that very reason. I guess for me weddings should look dainty, dreamy and romantic which is why I lean towards pastels and neutrals. I do think I was influenced a little by current trends but some colours that are always in fashion - pink being one of them. When you think of trends - rustic, shabby chic, contemporary, neutral - pink fits in to them all. Having been a wedding stylist for 20 years now I have seen colour trends come and go, some lasting a couple years and some fizzing out as quickly as they flew in. But pink is always there, a constant year after year after year and not just a couple - but the majority.
What inspired your choice of colour(s) and after reading this, are you contemplating other alternatives? Do tell...
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